The sound of my family is filling my heart and my ears. As I sit outside letting the night air cool me off from this hot October day I can hear my husband and my younger two boys inside playing Battleship. I love it.
I am struck by the moments of life. They string together to like a pearl necklace, but each has a beauty and story all it’s own.
In this moment I let the sweetness sink into me. Writing about it helps.
I have been trying to write for days. I have a beautiful moment I want to savor, commemorate, and express but it’s just not working. I sit down, my fingers fly across the keyboard, but it’s not coming out the way I want.
And then today something dawned on me after two failed attempts on the laptop and endless ones in my mind. I’m maxed out.
I have taken on too much. And like most things, some of what I have taken onto my plate is completely energizing and some of it weighs me down like concrete bricks.
But all of it strung together is a huge reminder to me that I am limited. I have boundaries. I can only do so much.
And it is not so much the feeling of stress that reminds me. It is the breakdowns my brain keeps having. The thing simply stops working.
For me, writing requires a certain way of life. Time and space to breathe. Moments. Brain power.
And I have made a commitment to help with a function at school that is requiring those moments and that brain space. I am glad to do it, but I am not sure I will do it again. At least not in the role I committed to this time around.
But keeping commitments is important to me. So when this all dawned on me today I realized I needed to let go of this one post I was working on. At least for another week and a half.
And this is the dance of life. Living out my priorities does not always look the same from moment to moment. There’s no formula to it. Sometimes the choice is writing, sometimes it is not. Sometimes it is family, sometimes it is projects.
And each moment has something to show me. Perhaps my limitedness. Perhaps the beauty of family life. Perhaps something else entirely. Something reflected in the way the moments are stringing themselves together.
And that is part of the beauty of the whole thing. Each moment having value all it’s own but also connecting to other moments to form something bigger. A day. A season. A life.